I found this telling, and went on to instantly catalogue what moral tales I was telling to my own impressionable little charges. They are good and plenty, a few for the record:
1. The Book of Virtues by William J. Bennett and it's companion, The Moral Compass
It begins with a quote from Plato's Republic,
Anything received into the mind at that age is likely to become indelible and unalterable; and therefore it is most important that the tales which the young first hear should be models of virtuous thoughts...
One school year we were graced by one of these every morning after breakfast. It holds such chapters as "Responsibility" and "Courage" and "Work." I would give my children three of these categories and when I was finished they had to guess what the story was about, and why.
Some of our favorites are "Dust Under the Rug," a story about a girl who one day gets hurried in her housework for dwarfs and fulfills the title's foreshadowing, only to later have her conscience stricken and discover gold as she makes amends.
Another is the rollicking rhyme of "Matilda, Who Told Lies, and Was Burned to Death."
...Need I say more?
2. Mrs. Piggle Wiggle's Magic (and really, anything else by Betty MacDonald you are lucky enough to get your hands on)
Not only is this a great introduction to the world of illustrator Hilary Knight (male, not female) but a didactic classic with entertaining yarns of the familiar friendly neighborhood cure-it-all with-a-call, Mrs. Piggle Wiggle. We know her, we love her, go out and order yourself three.
3. Picture books; Pepe the Lamplighter, Princesses are not Quitters, Ruby and the Teeny Tiny Lie, etc.
These three came to mind most readily being ones we own.
Pepe the Lamplighter highlights an immigrant boy's "insignificant" job which ends up saving his little lost sister one dark night.
The next is a modern fairy tale of three princesses who are tired of seeing the servants have all the fun. It is so fanciful and silly that little girls are easily swept up in the magic of...work.
Lastly, Ruby loves to collect little things so much that she slips, just a little, and tells her teacher that a little camera she founds is hers, and pays for it with a big guilty conscience.
4. Biographies:Stone Girl Bone Girl, Minty, and Annie Oakley
This is from memory, but impressionable true-life tales always leave my children desiring to do something great:
Stone Girl, Bone Girl is of the young girl, Mary Anning, who discovered many paleontological firsts along the coastal shores of her British homeland, helping to support her struggling family and defeat personal ridicule from her peers.
Minty, was Harriet Tubman's childhood nickname. The illustrator, Jerry Pinckney also did the Harriet Tubman stamp. This beautiful bringing-up story made me cry, but made my children laugh (at the right places). Minty tells her homemade doll a lively rendition of Davy & Goliath she has learned from her mother, comparing Goliath to their master and ending it all with a feast of plenty at the 'big house'.
Annie Oakley is a personal favorite, followed up by the musical, of course. This talented female went from providing food for her family to touring the country and donating much to orphanages.
5. The Friend, a magazine
Yes, I'm LDS and so is this children's magazine that monthly brings to our home true tales of children who have come up against disobedience, laziness, bullying, viewing something their family rules deem inappropriate, etc. from others, or themselves at a weak moment. Sometimes they initially make the right choice, sometimes they don't; which in itself, is a lesson. As a side note, a wise mother once told me she tries to discuss with and prepare her children for issues they must face a full five years before they will even need to.
6. Among the Farmyard People by Clara Dillingham Pierson
This series of "Among the...People" is actually about animals, because animals are people too. Basing moral messages around actual animal behavior results in stories, for instance, of a lamb who shakes his long tale proudly at the others when his mother isn't looking--until it's cut off. Another of my favorites is the surprisingly abrupt story of a mouse who mistakes foolishness for bravery with an owl around. While it takes a bit to read the humor at times, it is consistent throughout and directed toward kindergarten age of long ago.
7. Works of fiction: The Trolls, The Hundred Dresses, and Gone Away Lake
Good fiction, should be blatantly fun and subtly enriching.
The Trolls is one of the most surprising and though-provoking books I have ever read. Its light-hearted family stories have a deep and even dark undertone revealed in the very last lines. I pondered it's meaning for days after...
The Hundred Dresses, I'm sure we're all familiar with this early portrait of bullying or excluding, and it's consequences.
Gone Away Lake is an adventure of discovery into another time as two siblings and a cousin meet living relics of a time gone by. As beautifully as that unfolds, it's also about watching out for your younger sibling, and what can happen if you don't.
8. Fairy Tales
I put this last, but really, isn't this a child's first introduction to the realm of stories-with-hidden-meaning? Just think back on these tales that obviously originated with that purpose in mind:
Cinderella
Little Red Riding Hood
The Little Mermaid (Please, I'm talking the real one here)
Goldilocks and the Three Bears
Obviously enjoyed by all ages, these references are all mostly geared toward younger ages. If you know of some gems for the older set, please let me know. I'm half-thinking of myself here, for they have helped strengthen my moral character as well.
1 comment:
Good suggestions! We've read some of these, but not all. I always like to have something good to look for at the library for my kids to read.
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